GUARDIAN GUIDELINES
  1. Give the friendship time to develop -- at least 3 months- so do not judge too quickly.

  2. Get to know the Big Brother or Big Sister so you can feel comfortable with him/her.

  3. Help your child be considerate towards the Big. Remember this is your child's relationship; do not impede it with excessive questioning.

  4. Let the volunteer know that his or her efforts are appreciated.

  5. If there is something that concerns you about the relationship, contact the case manager immediately.

  6. Be flexible!

  7. Do not discuss your child with the Big in the presence of the child.

  8. Do not deprive the child of the weekly visit with the Big as a means of discipline.

  9. Remember, the Big is a friend, not a parent and should not be involved in the discipline of the child.